Facts that some girls should keep in mind.
This is why most of our Ladies will end up single and
probably miserable in life sorry to
say so; So we are the same age, we went to
high school at the same time with each of us earning
zero income, we have just finished
college/university at the same time, but you expect me
to be driving and living in a house of my own so that you can date me?
Since when did I start practicing magic? Did I join a secret cult where they offer
me money for free? We are both tarmacking looking for
the same job. We are both living from hand to mouth at
the moment. We are probably waiting for the HELB man
to start asking us to refund him. We are
both struggling at the moment. Yet you say you cannot
date me if I do not have a car. You are
23 but you’ve already decided that you cannot date a
man who does not drive. You cannot
date a man who lives in a bedsitter – you want a man
with a three-bedroomed house with
ample space and the best furniture – and a garage.
Darling, stop chasing the wind. With
such expectations, you will only get an older guy who
has been struggling for the last 5-10
years. They didn’t wake up one day with that wealth,
they worked as hard as we all are. You think you will trap
him? Nah. He knows your type. He will mess up your life
and leave you. Then you will come back to me after five
years of being messed up by such men. You will cry to
society that all men are the same; all men are dogs –
they just use you sexually and leave you hang to dry.
But darling, you only get what you deserve. You wanted
riches, he wanted sex. Your contract is just over so stop
crying. And then you will come back to me after those
five years because you remember I had the hots for you
back in the day. And you will offer yourself to me. And I
will look at you with sad eyes, heavily disappointed at
the turn of events. If you had only stood by me as I was
struggling on Kshs. 200 bob a day! If you had only
agreed to live in my bedsitter and be there when I can
finally move to a bigger house! And before I answer you
my phone will ring – it’s my wife. She stuck with me all
those years because she knew men are built – good
buildings take time. And I will leave you there with tears
rolling down your not-so-smooth cheeks. And this same
scenario will repeat itself as you search for all the men
you left while you were younger because they could not
provide the same things that men who had worked for 10
yrs plus could provide. And finally when you’ve had it all,
you will get married to the next person who asks you
out regardless of whether you like them or not.
Hopefully, it will work out. Mostly, it does not. You will
cry to society for the rest of your days, “There are no
good men out there” And society will look at you and
smile sarcastically because everyone knows that your
search for instant gratification cost you a good future.
You are 23-25 probably on your first entry-level job, why
on earth do you need a man who drives when you
probably still live with your parents?
Pause. Rethink your life.